Experienced Family Law and Mediation Services
Your trusted partner for divorce and mediation services.
Experienced Family Law and Mediation Services
Your trusted partner for divorce and mediation services.
Expert Legal Services for Canova Law and Mediation
Divorce
Divorce is the ending of a marriage, which involves dividing the things owned together and deciding who will have custody of the children.
Child Custody
Child custody is about making the best plans for decision-making and physical care of a child when their parents no longer live together.
Paternity
Paternity is about establishing a parent's rights and responsibilities to a child born when the parents weren't married.
Adoption
Adoptions are when someone becomes the legal parent of a child who is not their biological child, usually when their biological parent is absent or unable to care for them.
Prenuptial Agreements
We provide legal services for drafting and reviewing prenuptial agreements. Our attorneys will work with you to ensure that your prenuptial agreement is legally binding and that your assets are protected in the event of a divorce.
Family Law Services
Our role as your lawyer advocate is to gather all the necessary information to support you in negotiating your case. If negotiations fail to yield the desired results, we are prepared to take your case to the courtroom.
Effective Mediation and the Process
The Mediation Process Explained
Let's dive into the steps involved in a typical mediation process. It begins with scheduling an initial consultation with a mediator, where you'll discuss your concerns, goals, and expectations.
During the mediation sessions, you will be guided through open discussions, encouraging dialogue and helping you explore various options. The process is collaborative, allowing you to maintain control over the outcome and make decisions that align with your unique circumstances.
Throughout the process, the mediator's empathetic and professional guidance will ensure a supportive environment as you work towards a peaceful resolution.
- Agree to Mediate: Both parties must voluntarily agree to engage in the mediation process to seek a resolution to their dispute.
- Gather Points of View: The mediator facilitates a discussion where each party has the opportunity to express their perspectives, concerns, and interests related to the dispute.
- Focus on Interest: The mediator encourages the parties to shift their focus from rigid positions to underlying interests. By identifying and understanding each party's interests, the mediator helps them explore potential solutions that meet their needs.
- Create Win/Win Options: With the assistance of the mediator, the parties collaboratively generate a variety of options that aim to create mutually beneficial outcomes. The focus is on finding solutions that satisfy the interests of both parties, promoting a sense of fairness and cooperation.
- Evaluate Options: The parties carefully evaluate the proposed options, considering their feasibility, practicality, and potential to address their interests. This step involves thoughtful analysis and discussion to determine which options are most suitable for further consideration.
- Create Mutual Decision: Based on the parties' evaluations and discussions, they work together, guided by the mediator, to develop a document outlining the terms of their resolution. This document reflects their mutual understanding and serves as a blueprint for implementing the agreed-upon solutions.
Kimberly Canova's mediation process aligns with the key principles of mediation, focusing on open communication, collaborative problem-solving, and reaching mutually satisfactory outcomes for the parties involved.
We’ve honed this process over 30 years and have helped more than 100 couples divorce amicably.
The Benefits of Mediation over Litigation
- Cost-effectiveness: Mediation is more cost-effective than litigation. It eliminates the need for lengthy court battles and multiple attorney fees, resulting in significant savings for both parties.
- Time-saving: Mediation progresses at a faster pace compared to the often-delayed court system. With fewer procedural requirements and scheduling constraints, mediation allows couples to reach agreements more efficiently, saving valuable time and reducing stress.
- Focus on children: Mediation prioritizes the well-being and best interests of any children involved in the divorce. It encourages open communication and collaborative decision-making, ensuring that the needs of the children are at the forefront of the process.
- Minimization of emotional stress: Choosing mediation over litigation can help minimize the emotional stress often associated with divorce. Mediation provides a more supportive and respectful environment, fostering healthier communication and cooperation between the parties involved.
- Preservation of relationships: Mediation aims to preserve relationships and promote an amicable post-divorce dynamic. By encouraging constructive dialogue and mutual understanding, mediation helps couples maintain healthier relationships moving forward, which is particularly beneficial for co-parenting situations.
Considering these factors, embracing mediation can lead to a more peaceful and mutually satisfactory outcome for all parties involved.
What Happens After Successful Mediation?
A mediator doesn't have the power to officially end your marriage - only a judge can do that. So, even if your mediation goes well, there are still a few more steps you need to take to finalize your divorce. Once you've completed mediation and reached an solution with your spouse, you'll need the court to review and approve your settlement document. Once that's done, the court will issue the final divorce decree.
How Do You Find The Right Mediator For Your Divorce
When looking for a skilled mediator for your divorce, consider the following key points to ensure you find the right professional to guide you through the process:
- Specialization in Divorce Mediation: Look for a mediator who specializes specifically in divorce mediations. They should have in-depth knowledge of family law and extensive experience in handling divorce cases. This specialization ensures they understand the unique complexities and dynamics of divorce proceedings.
- Professional Qualifications and Training: Verify that the mediator has the necessary professional qualifications and training in mediation. They should have completed recognized mediation programs and have relevant certifications. This demonstrates their expertise in facilitating constructive dialogue and negotiations between divorcing couples.
- Neutral and Impartial Approach: A skilled mediator should maintain a neutral and impartial stance throughout the mediation process. This means they should not take sides or favor one party over the other. Look for a mediator who can create a safe and non-judgmental environment where both parties feel heard and respected.
- Effective Communication and Conflict Resolution Skills: Mediation requires effective communication and conflict resolution skills. The mediator should possess excellent listening skills and the ability to facilitate open and productive discussions. They should be adept at guiding parties through difficult conversations and helping them find mutually acceptable solutions.
- Compassion and Empathy: Divorce is a highly emotional and challenging experience. Seek a mediator who demonstrates compassion, empathy, and sensitivity toward the needs and concerns of both parties. A compassionate mediator can create an atmosphere of understanding and support, facilitating a smoother and more amicable resolution.
Conclusion
Choosing mediation for your divorce is a powerful step towards achieving a peaceful and amicable resolution. By prioritizing collaboration, open communication, and tailored solutions, you can minimize the emotional and financial toll often associated with litigation.
Schedule a Consultation Today
If you would like to discuss how mediation might benefit all parties, please schedule a Mediation Consultation to learn more. Please keep in mind, even though we are a law firm, if we are consulting regarding mediation we cannot offer legal advise.